FOR MEN FACING DIVORCE
Walk Into Your Divorce Prepared, Not Blindsided.
The complete field guide that helps men get their finances, their documents, and their case in order, before anyone files.
✓ Know exactly what you own and owe, before she does
✓ Build a court-ready record from day one
✓ Save thousands by walking into your lawyer organized
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YOU'RE NOT ALONE
If any of this sounds familiar, keep reading.
"I don't even know where to start.
The whole thing feels like a mountain"
"I'm terrified she'll take the house and I'll barely see my kids"
"My retainer ran out before anything was even resolved"
"I was up at 2am building a spreadsheet,
trying to figure out my own finances"
Most men go into divorce reacting, scared, and unprepared. The ones who come out okay did one thing differently: they walked in with a plan.
THE ONE THING NOBODY TELLS YOU
Divorce isn't won in the courtroom. It's decided in the weeks before anyone files, in the paperwork you gathered and the record you kept.
The calm, prepared man beats the angry man with a better story almost every time. This guide makes you that man.
EVERYTHING YOU NEED IN ONE PLACE
Inside The
Divorce Field Guide
A complete, step-by-step system built from what actually works. No legal jargon. Just the plan, the tools, and the exact words to use.
The Field Guide
The complete playbook: the first 72 hours, the money, the kids, the legal process, and how to protect yourself. Written for men, in plain English.
37-page book
The Financial Toolkit
Eight smart spreadsheets that do the math for you: a net worth snapshot, income tracker, court-ready documentation log, custody-time planner, shared-expense tracker, and a now-vs-after budget.
8 excel tools
The Companion Workbook
Every form and template to fill in: document checklist, asset inventory, parenting plan, settlement proposal, lawyer scorecard, and more. Print it or type into it.
fill-in templates
40+ Communication Scripts
Word-for-word messages for dealing with your ex without hurting your case. For the hostile text, the money request, the high-conflict moment, and more.
ready to send
Bonus: 50-State Quick Reference
The divorce basics for every US state, in plain English: how property is split, residency rules, and more.
bonus
Bonus: Terms Decoded + 30-Day Rebuild
Fifty-three legal terms decoded in plain English, plus your first month after, week by week.
2 bonusesLOOK INSIDE
This is the real thing. See for yourself.
Actual pages from the guide and workbook. No fluff, no filler.
Marital vs separate
The Field Note Method
Fill-in asset & debt inventory
What to say, and what not to say
Every legal term, decoded
The basics for all 50 states
AND THE FINANCIAL TOOLKIT
Stop guessing at 2 a.m.
Eight spreadsheets that do the math for you. Enter your accounts once and see exactly what you own, what you owe, and the one number that matters: where you actually stand.
Net worth snapshot · Income · Court-ready documentation log · Custody-time planner · Shared-expense tracker
· Now-vs-after budget (+ Assets, Debts).
Your net worth, split, in minutes.
HOW IT WORKS
Ready in 3 Steps
Download instantly
Get the whole kit the moment you check out. No waiting, no shipping.
Open on any device
Phone, tablet, or computer. Read it, print it, or type right into it.
Follow the plan
Start with the first 72 hours and go one prepared step at a time.
BUILT FOR YOUR SITUATION
Whatever you're facing, there's a chapter for it.
This is for you if…
You have kids
She filed first
High-conflict ex
You own a business
Hidden assets
WHY WE BUILT THIS
Because too many good men get blindsided.
We built The Divorce Field Guide after watching too many men go through divorce the hard way: reacting instead of preparing, overpaying lawyers to do work they could have done themselves, and finding out too late what they should have done on day one.
This is the guide we wish every one of them had on the first day. Not legal advice, and not a lawyer. A clear, calm plan that puts you back in control when everything feels out of it.
Get organized before you get emotional.
WHAT MEN ARE SAYING
You're in good company
"I wish I'd had this the day she told me. I walked into my first lawyer meeting with everything organized and he was genuinely impressed. Saved me a fortune."
"The spreadsheets alone were worth it. For the first time I actually knew my own numbers instead of guessing at 2am."
"The communication scripts kept me from sending texts I would have regretted. Calm, factual, done. Exactly what I needed."
Get The Complete Divorce Field Guide
The Field Guide (37-page book)$47
The Financial Toolkit (8 tools)$49
The Companion Workbook$39
40+ Communication Scripts$29
Bonus: 50-State Reference$19
Bonus: Terms Decoded + RebuildFree
QUESTIONS
Answer before you ask
Is this legal advice?
No. This is an educational field guide to help you get organized and prepared. It does not replace a lawyer or provide legal advice for your specific case.
Will it work in my state?
Yes. The process and principles apply across all 50 states, and the included 50-State Quick Reference covers the state-specific basics like how property is split and residency rules.
I'm not tech-savvy. Can I use it?
Absolutely. It's a simple PDF you can read on your phone, tablet, or computer. Print it out or type right into it. No apps or software to learn.
Is this a subscription?
No. It's a one-time payment. You get everything instantly and it's yours forever, with no recurring charges.
What if it's not for me?
Because our products are digital and downloadable, we're unable to offer refunds once the files have been downloaded. That said, your satisfaction matters to us — if something isn't right, just reach out and we'll do our best to help. You can read our full policy on our Refund Policy page.
How do I get it?
The moment you check out, you get instant access to download everything. Open it on any device and start right away.
You didn't choose this. But you get to choose how you show up for it.
Prepared. Calm. In control. Get the plan that thousands of men wish they'd had on day one.
Disclaimer: The Divorce Field Guide is an educational preparation resource, not legal advice, and is not a substitute for a licensed attorney. Laws vary by jurisdiction. Consult a qualified professional about your specific situation.
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